Dora Djamila Mester
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Ways to Reimagine the Missionary Position for Intense Orgasms. 

I’m not a sex therapist. I just happen to be a person who has amazing sex.

My experience has included my own self-discovery. I’ve mentioned in previous articles that my partner and I don’t engage in what most would call kinky sex to deliver mind-blowing orgasms.

It’s actually a lot of missionary, but it’s amazing missionary.

We’ve laughed at ourselves and said if someone filmed us it would probably look really boring, but oh-my-God it was f*cking incredible.

Our ideas about what we need to do in the bedroom to have amazing sex are skewed to focus on the act and less on the connection. I was inspired to share four positions that we have used that delivered what can only be described as transcendental orgasms, but I preface it with the understanding that loving yourself and having an aligned connection with your partner come first.

When you combine self-love and connection with these positions it will—well—rock your world.

 

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