Dora Djamila Mester
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    • KK33 Budapest * community in a historic garden 2008-2013
    • Feldmár Summer University 2015
    • Muiderslot * a medieval herb and vegetable garden 2015-2017
    • Laterna Magica Amsterdam * gardening with children 2016-2020
    • SET community gardens Amsterdam (NL) 2018 – running
    • HOLD base * garden * nature * art * care * seat of learning (HU) 2025-
    • Campo Para°Diso (IT) 2025-
  • In Touch Amsterdam
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      • SET community gardens Amsterdam 2018-
      • community oven 2024 – running
      • Beyond Gender 2022-2025
    • Past projects
      • STEK Oost Amsterdam community garden & atelier 2024 January-August
      • Three tier garden 2021-2022
      • Using the voice and body in the classroom (VOICE) 2021-2023
      • Integral Sexual Education and Empowerment in Schools (ISEX) 2021-2023
      • DRAW the lines of safety (DRAW) 2018-2021
      • The BODY project
      • Sex-ed in schools
        • Intimacy, Relationships and Interculturality in Youth Work (IRIS) 2018-2021
      • Pestalozzi teachers training
      • Body, society, culture: together for integration
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A Call To All Man: Please Understand A Woman’s Sexuality Is Her Most Vulnerable State

It is so important!! Please listen carefully to her!

Magda Kay: A Call To All Man: Please Understand A Woman’s Sexuality Is Her Most Vulnerable State.

It’s so different than yours. You give, she is the one who receives it. She takes you into her body.


So if she asks you to slow down, or not to go all the way – honor that. That voice is coming from deep inside her. It is not the voice of rejection, of manipulation or of being cold.


Please don’t take these as a personal rejections and shut down. She is asking you to help her open up. This is a gift, not a slap in your face.
Please see the beauty in her opening up, slowly, like a flower. Don’t push her. Let her unfold in her own time.



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