It is so important!! Please listen carefully to her!
It’s so different than yours. You give, she is the one who receives it. She takes you into her body.
So if she asks you to slow down, or not to go all the way – honor that. That voice is coming from deep inside her. It is not the voice of rejection, of manipulation or of being cold.
Please don’t take these as a personal rejections and shut down. She is asking you to help her open up. This is a gift, not a slap in your face.
Please see the beauty in her opening up, slowly, like a flower. Don’t push her. Let her unfold in her own time.