Dora Djamila Mester
  • about me
    • personal
    • me and the garden
    • community building
    • sexuality * intimacy * relationships
    • art and beauty
    • all my works
    • media
  • activism & green transition
  • education & community building
  • garden projects
    • KK33 Budapest * community in a historic garden 2008-2013
    • Feldmár Summer University 2015
    • Muiderslot * a medieval herb and vegetable garden 2015-2017
    • Laterna Magica Amsterdam * gardening with children 2016-2020
    • SET community gardens Amsterdam (NL) 2018 – running
    • HOLD base * garden * nature * art * care * seat of learning (HU) 2025-
    • Campo Para°Diso (IT) 2025-
  • In Touch Amsterdam
    • Running projects
      • SET community gardens Amsterdam 2018-
      • community oven 2024 – running
      • Beyond Gender 2022-2025
    • Past projects
      • STEK Oost Amsterdam community garden & atelier 2024 January-August
      • Three tier garden 2021-2022
      • Using the voice and body in the classroom (VOICE) 2021-2023
      • Integral Sexual Education and Empowerment in Schools (ISEX) 2021-2023
      • DRAW the lines of safety (DRAW) 2018-2021
      • The BODY project
      • Sex-ed in schools
        • Intimacy, Relationships and Interculturality in Youth Work (IRIS) 2018-2021
      • Pestalozzi teachers training
      • Body, society, culture: together for integration
  • art
    • photography
    • zen videos
    • creating spaces
    • community art
    • dance
    • Erotica
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my services to you

Consultations for individuals and couples

I offer private consultations for individuals and couples who feel comfortable sharing their question or problem in a more intimate environment. These sessions lie somewhere in-between coaching and therapy.

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I facilitate a process where my clients will be able to identify the real blockage in their sexual life or relationship. I support them finding out if this problem is rooted in a life-situation that can be solved by talking, sharing, focusing, asking questions, or active listening. My role is to offer ideas, feedback, tools, and support to stop spinning in a vicious circle and move forward. Sometimes my role is beyond words; it lies in appreciative attention, being present, feel and use the energy of the situation, accepting the other person without judgements and create a safe space of mutual trust. We work on issues such:

  • sexuality / (changing) desire(s) in a (long-term) relationship
  • parenthood and sexuality (pregnancy, postpartum, family life and sexuality)
  • sexual identities and body issues
  • self-confidence, body-image (every age) – how to find your own way within social, cultural expectations
  • missing orgasm
  • erection problems
migration, life transitions

To my clients, who moved from a place to another,  I give support to gain back their lost balance, to stay or get connected and activate all their (hidden) resources to feel empowered again. We work on issues such:

  • relationship / self-image / sexuality imbalance caused by migration or other life transition
  • how to manage conflicting gender roles due to becoming a parent or other life transition or due to the change in your cultural environment
  • self-confidence, identity, motivation issues due to migration / transition- how to activate your resources, find a balance, get empowered again

If you want to get an impression about my approach to the topics above, let´s take a look on my articles.

I live and work in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, but I have clients from many countries in Europe.  Feel free to contact me.

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If you want to make a try, get in touch with me here
One consultation is 90 minutes, for individuals costs 75 Eur, for couples 90 Eur.

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Workshops, group sessions

For adults (both men and women, individuals and couples) I provide parkapcsolatnok

 These include,  ´sex and parenting´, ´sexuality and motherhood´, “the anatomy of pleasure”, “sexual anatomy for adults”, “pussy workshop”, “sex anatomy only for women”, “sex toys”,  “sex and relationship”, “sex in a long-term relationship”, “sex and aging”, “sex and illness”, “body image”, “sexual orientation”, “sexual identity and body issues”, “transition in life and in sexuality”, ´flirting through cultures´, etc. I offer workshops dealing with the topic of sexuality and motherhood such as pregnancy and sexuality, the “fourth trimester”, sexuality and motherhood, how to talk about sex with our kids, etc.

In addition, I offer workshops for many organizations, communities and social groups, such as queer activist groups, youth organizations, as well as sex or gender-related programs and festivals.

With these group works I love to experiment, be inspired by the place, the theme, and by the participants. I do believe in sharing and enjoy how the group brings together knowledge and energy.

You can find more about one of my last workshops here.

If you’d like to arrange a workshop or group session for your community group or professional organization I invite you to get in touch. Let’s find out what you need and what I can offer you!



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